Have you ever told someone—maybe a coworker or neighbor—that your beloved pet passed away, only to be met with indifference or even laughter?
Sadly, this does happen. One of my customers recently shared such an experience with me, and I’m writing today’s post in the hope that it may offer comfort to others who’ve gone through something similar.
Being Laughed at for Pet Loss
Personally, I’ve never been laughed at for grieving a pet, but I have been brushed off as if my feelings didn’t matter.
When you go through something like that, it’s natural to stop talking about your pet with others. You don’t want to open yourself up to more hurt.
But sometimes, staying silent isn’t an option—especially in the workplace.
When You Need to Explain Your Absence
You’re not obligated to give a reason when you take a day off from work. But colleagues or supervisors may still ask, “Is everything okay?” or “What’s going on lately?”
In that moment, you might feel the need to share the truth—that you’re grieving the loss of a beloved pet.
Imagine summoning the courage to say that, only to hear, “Oh, is that all? I’m glad it wasn’t something serious.”
Words like that can be incredibly painful.
A Common Story
Believe it or not, I’ve heard this kind of story more than once.
People say:
“I felt so lonely.”
“It hurt more than I expected.”
When I hear these words—or read them in messages—I simply listen. I don’t try to fix anything.
And often, just being heard is enough to help someone begin to feel a little lighter.
You Don’t Have to Go Through It Alone
If you’re still carrying that grief, I encourage you to talk about it with someone.
But here’s something important: choose someone who truly understands—ideally, someone who has pets or has experienced this kind of loss themselves.
They’ll know that it’s not “just a dog” or “just a cat.” They’ll understand that your pain is real.
And being heard by someone like that may help ease the weight of your grief, even just a little.
In my case, many customers have told me that talking with me helps them feel better.
I may not be a counselor, but I’m always here to listen—with empathy, not judgment.
My pet came home
Perhaps it is because we listen to such concerns while making the products, that after delivery we are told, “My pet has come home.”
This is a knitted blanket made to look just like a photo of a pet.
The most popular item is the cushion.
When you hold the cushion, you can feel the warmth of the knit.
You can buy it on Etsy