Losing a pet can shatter your focus. You may feel like you’re drifting—and maybe even think about resigning. If that describes how you feel right now, please read on.
I’m not a professional counselor, but I’ve supported many who’ve reached out during their hardest times—and I do it with my hands, creating memorial knitted keepsakes for beloved pets.
Take a Moment—Don’t Make Hasty Decisions
The urge to quit right now is understandable, but it’s best to wait. Grief can cloud judgment, and in this fragile state, any big decision—like leaving your job—might leave you regretting it later.
I know how it feels. Even though I’ve sat with clients navigating pet loss, when I lost my own cat, I found myself fighting back tears and sighing deeply while working. That’s how deeply grief can affect us.
So instead of resigning, try taking a short break. A few days off won’t cost you your job. If returning feels overwhelming, you can always revisit the idea of leaving later, when your mind is clearer.
Sometimes Leaving Is the Right Choice
That said, resignation can be the right move—but only when it aligns with your goals, not as a reaction to grief alone. If you’ve already been thinking about a career change or starting your own venture, this could be the impetus you need. Just be sure your reasons are well-considered, not just emotional.
Still Want to Stay—But Can’t?
Maybe your workplace is supportive, but your heart isn’t in it. That inner conflict is tough. I found a way to help others—and myself—by creating knitted items that feel like a pet’s embrace. One of my favorites is a reversible houndstooth blanket: cozy enough to feel like your pet’s hug, yet subtle enough for an office setting.
A customer once shared:
“The lap blanket arrived yesterday. It’s so warm—and it brings back memories of my cat resting on my lap. I thought I’d use it at work, but it’s just too precious—so now it’ll stay on display at home.”
