The other day, I was chatting casually with a woman from my neighborhood in front of my house.
Just then, my cat appeared in the bay window, quietly watching us from inside.
Noticing the cat, the woman smiled and said,
“Oh, your kitty is so cute. Our Chihuahua passed away recently.”
She went on to share that her beloved dog had passed away a few months ago.
We used to greet each other during walks and often ended up chatting about her Chihuahua. Those little moments made our days a bit brighter.
I had been wondering why I hadn’t seen her or her dog in a while, but I hadn’t realized what had happened.
As she spoke, it hit me—she hadn’t seemed quite herself lately.
Even when we crossed paths on the street, it was only a quick hello. We hadn’t had a proper conversation in some time.
The Connection Between Pet Loss and Everyday Social Life
Talking about pets always brings joy, no matter who you’re speaking with.
Even with someone you’ve just met, a pet story can spark a warm and friendly conversation.
Sometimes, pet lovers who barely knew each other before find themselves growing closer through shared pet experiences.
But what happens when that beloved pet is no longer there?
After a loss, many pet owners don’t feel like going outside.
They may stop going on walks, avoid seeing people, and gradually withdraw from their neighborhood interactions.
As these small everyday encounters disappear, so does a source of emotional energy.
It made me realize: many people who suffer physically after losing a pet may not only be grieving.
They may also be struggling from the loss of those little human connections—moments of warmth and casual conversation that had once uplifted them.
Just saying hello to a neighbor, having a brief chat about the weather or their pets—those seemingly small things help us stay connected and emotionally balanced.
I believe it’s important to create those moments intentionally when you can.
But I also believe:
It’s okay to take your time.
When you’re still hurting, there’s no need to push yourself to go out.
Take it slow.
Stay home.
Rest.
Your beloved pet is still right there with you, waiting patiently for you to feel a little better.
Among our customers, I believe there are many people just like this—quietly waiting at home for their custom cushion to arrive, perhaps hoping for a little comfort in the process.
That’s why I do my best to create each piece with care and compassion—
To be close to those who are grieving,
And to offer a little warmth when it’s needed most.
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